{"id":491,"date":"2025-05-29T07:06:35","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T07:06:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kpltechsolution.us\/newgobeyondtalktherapy\/?page_id=491"},"modified":"2025-07-01T09:04:43","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T09:04:43","slug":"is-your-couples-counselor-sabotaging-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/kpltechsolution.us\/newgobeyondtalktherapy\/is-your-couples-counselor-sabotaging-your-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Is your couples counselor sabotaging your marriage?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"491\" class=\"elementor elementor-491\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-17c1287 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"17c1287\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1a509bb\" data-id=\"1a509bb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93227af elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"93227af\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Is your couples counselor sabotaging your marriage?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60b4dd4 elementor-icon-list--layout-inline elementor-align-center elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"60b4dd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items elementor-inline-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-inline-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">HOme<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-inline-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">Is your couples counselor sabotaging your marriage?<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-52c9b50 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"52c9b50\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-906d349\" data-id=\"906d349\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b2b263b elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"b2b263b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"376\" src=\"https:\/\/kpltechsolution.us\/newgobeyondtalktherapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/couples-counselor-sabotaging-768x376-1.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-493\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kpltechsolution.us\/newgobeyondtalktherapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/couples-counselor-sabotaging-768x376-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/kpltechsolution.us\/newgobeyondtalktherapy\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/couples-counselor-sabotaging-768x376-1-300x147.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e71159e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e71159e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you\u2019ve Googled <strong><span style=\"color: #d01110;\">\u201cHow to fix a marriage\u201d<\/span><\/strong> and called the first <strong><span style=\"color: #d01110;\">couples<\/span><\/strong> counselor that popped up, you may be setting yourself up for relationship derailment. And sooner or later, you might start asking yourself, Is your couples counselor sabotaging your marriage? More and more couples are coming to the same painful realization after spending hundreds of dollars and hours in therapy: this counseling is sabotaging their marriage. Here, let&#8217;s take the example of Sally, who couldn\u2019t sleep; her husband was lying just inches away, yet he felt like a stranger.<\/p><p>She couldn\u2019t even remember the last time they embraced, let alone made love, mostly because, by now, she didn\u2019t really care anymore. The therapist she had dragged her \u201con-paper spouse\u201d to had insisted they both dig deep and verbalize dark memories, painful perceptions, and unresolved hang-ups. At 3:00 a.m., the specific details escaped her. But the emotional weight? That had been gnawing at her gut ever since she sank into that therapist\u2019s shiny leather couch.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-16fbaec elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"16fbaec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Fixing a Broken Marriage - Is It Even Possible?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4063db4 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4063db4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The \u201cD\u201d word was echoing in her ears\u2026<\/p><p>The stats popping up\u00a0<span style=\"color: #d01110;\"><a style=\"color: #d01110;\" href=\"https:\/\/guidedoc.com\/does-marriage-counseling-work-statistics-facts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">online<\/a>\u00a0<\/span>were not encouraging.<\/p><p>The\u00a0<span style=\"color: #d01110;\"><a style=\"color: #d01110;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.refinery29.com\/en-us\/2017\/01\/137440\/divorce-rate-in-america-statistics\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">National Survey of Family Growth<\/a><\/span>\u00a0projected the probability of a first marriage lasting 20 years was 52% for women and 56% for men.<\/p><p>Then came the real zingers. A Canadian study claimed lifelong singles had better overall health than married folks. An Italian study said their cancer rates were equal to or even lower. And the Australian one? That had her sucking harder on the last cigarette in her pack: lifelong single, childless women in their 70s had fewer major illnesses, healthier BMIs, and smoked less than married women.<br \/>Was she missing out? Should she chuck the whole marriage thing and dive into the swinging singles scene? Then\u2026 ding, an email popped up from her friend Maureen.<\/p><p>The energy in it was hard to miss: Maureen and Harry were going on a Caribbean<br \/>cruise to renew their vows. Wait, what? Sally was sure Maureen had once felt just like she did &#8211; like her couples counselor was sabotaging her marriage. Just a few months ago, at book club, Maureen practically bragged about using it as an escape from her husband. Sally made up her mind to call her the moment the sun rose.<br \/>That\u2019s when she learned Maureen had been working with me, the Un-Talk Therapist. And suddenly, the questions started flying, from both ends of the line. Couples counseling? Without talking? You\u2019ve got to be kidding! Sally said. That sounds counterintuitive &#8211; rebellious even.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-efea534 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"efea534\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Is Your Couples Therapist Secretly Sabotaging Your\nRelationship?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ca0c735 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ca0c735\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It might sound dramatic, but here\u2019s a harsh reality: 3 out of 5 couples who follow traditional talk therapy still end up divorced. Maureen remembered how, back in the 1960s, breastfeeding advocates were seen as rebels. Today, every doctor and toddler alike knows that mother\u2019s milk is gold for nutrition, immunity, and lifelong bonding. So much for playing it safe.<\/p><p>Maureen shared how I helped her and her husband build a brain science-based strategy to strengthen their marriage. With it, they could grow closer, boosting their emotional health and connection, on their own terms and timeline.<br \/>How?<br \/>They chose to break away from mainstream marriage therapy, the kind that says: \u201cLet it<br \/>all out. Unleash the angst. Dump every passing feeling onto your partner preferably with<br \/>drama.\u201d The slimier, the better.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d758736 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d758736\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Does marriage counseling work?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f194068 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f194068\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Believe it or not, sometimes marriage counseling \u201cworks,\u201d just not in the way you\u2019d hope. For some couples, it ends up driving the final nail into the marital coffin, convincing them their relationship isn\u2019t worth saving. Instead of healing, it quietly encourages a split.<\/p><p>Studies show that nearly 25% of couples report their relationship worsened within two years after completing traditional talk therapy. Even more alarming? A staggering 38%\u00a0<span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">end up divorced just four years after finishing their sessions, and draining their bank\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">accounts.<\/span><\/p><p>Many therapists still lean on outdated Freudian models, urging couples to keep talking<br \/>things through endlessly. They become a constant presence, often inserting themselves<br \/>into the dynamic for months, even years, making you dependent on the therapy instead<br \/>of your partner.<\/p><p>Worse yet, they discourage you from holding back impulsive, emotional outbursts, labeling them \u201cdishonesty.\u201d But letting every thought fly isn\u2019t authenticity; it\u2019s sabotage. That unfiltered venting erodes the very foundation of meaningful communication.\u00a0<\/p><p>What strengthens relationships isn\u2019t yelling louder to be heard; it\u2019s learning when not to speak. That\u2019s where <span style=\"color: #d01110;\">Un-Talk Therapy<\/span> comes in. In Un-Talk Therapy, I help couples identify when, where, and why to talk, and just as crucially, when to stay silent or step back altogether. Backed by science and real results, this method replaces noise with clarity.<\/p><p>But a quick chat with couples who\u2019ve embraced Un-Talk Therapy, and learned to balance their \u201clizard brain\u201d with their \u201cgenius brain,\u201d is usually enough to shift that thinking. With vivid visuals, smart humor, and simple brain science, I quickly get to the heart of the issue and craft a custom approach. Un-Talk Therapy doesn\u2019t fix your relationship for you; it gives you just enough insight and direction to do what you already have the power to do. And that changes everything.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6ebcedb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6ebcedb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Here Comes the Un-Talk Therapy<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f0ee9bb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f0ee9bb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In <span style=\"color: #d01110;\">Un-Talk Therapy<\/span>, I show you how to recognize, based on science, when to speak,<br \/>when to engage silently, and when it\u2019s best not to interact at all. At first, most curious<br \/>couples are skeptical. How can learning brain science possibly help save a marriage in<br \/>just a few weeks?<br \/>But after just a brief chat with a couple who have successfully applied Un-Talk Therapy,<br \/>who now understand the dynamic between their \u201clizard brain\u201d and their \u201cgenius brain,\u201d<br \/>that doubt begins to shift.<br \/>With vivid visuals, clear definitions, and a little humor, whether in my office or over<br \/>Skype, I help couples cut to the chase and craft their custom healing path. Un-Talk<br \/>Therapy equips you with just enough insight to finally do what\u2019s already within your<br \/>power: take back control of your relationship.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d0c8552 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"d0c8552\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/iqUDCvh6dIQ&quot;,&quot;start&quot;:0,&quot;end&quot;:180,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aeda24b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"aeda24b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Change Your Brain, Change Your Relationship<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c85953a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c85953a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>What if the power to transform your relationship doesn\u2019t lie in endless talking, but in how<br \/>your brain is wired? Thanks to the latest breakthroughs in brain science, we now know<br \/>something truly exciting: our brains aren\u2019t fixed at birth. Through the discovery of<br \/>neuroplasticity, we\u2019ve learned that those bundles of fat and water in our heads can be<br \/>rewired, and that means your emotional habits and mental patterns aren\u2019t set in stone.<br \/>Sure, change isn\u2019t easy. It takes awareness, effort, and a little training. But just like<br \/>you\u2019d hire a coach to get your body in shape, it makes sense to have one for your mind<br \/>and your relationship, too. Every couple\u2019s journey is unique, but the foundation of Un-<br \/>Talk Therapy remains the same: using the science of the brain to gently, purposefully,<br \/>reshape how you relate and reconnect.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-95b8c60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"95b8c60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What do I need to do to fix my relationship?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-509bc66 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"509bc66\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>That\u2019s a question I hear often. And here\u2019s the truth: I can help change your mental diet,<br \/>but only if you bring five key ingredients to the table:<\/p><ul><li><b>motivation<\/b>: to stay together<\/li><li><b>desire<\/b>: to enjoy each other again.<\/li><li><strong>curiosity:<\/strong> about yourself and how your brain works.<\/li><li><b>willingness:<\/b> to shift the way you communicate.<\/li><li><b>discipline:<\/b> to practice, practice, and then practice some more.<\/li><\/ul><p>As your Un-Talk Therapist, I bring my own essentials:<\/p><ul><li>Simple, visual explanations of your brain in conflict.<\/li><li>Concrete steps to help your brain wean off its addiction to arguing.<\/li><li>Training on the importance of timing, yes, timing is everything.<\/li><li>A custom prescription for healthy communication.<\/li><li>And a healthy sense of humor to keep it real.<\/li><\/ul><p>When you show up with your part, and I bring mine, you\u2019re not just going to work, you\u2019re<br \/>going to enjoy it.<br \/>You\u2019ll begin to see your old conflicts in a whole new light. You might even laugh at the<br \/>patterns you once thought were permanent.<br \/>Take Sally, for example. In our very first session, she recounted the end of a long,<br \/>emotionally draining conversation. She remembered going completely speechless\u2026<br \/>And then, something shifted.<\/p><p>She felt herself open up suddenly, seeing herself from a higher perspective. That\u2019s<br \/>when Maureen asked her, \u201cCan\u2019t you think of a time when biting your tongue really paid<br \/>off?\u201d<br \/>Sally was stunned. She couldn\u2019t.<\/p><p><b>Can you?<\/b><\/p><p>What moment made you realize it?<\/p><p>Did it shift the emotional temperature in the room?<\/p><p>Do tell! I love hearing stories like these; they help me help others save their<\/p><p>relationships around the world.<\/p><p>Cheers to less talk and more love!<\/p><p>Phil<\/p><p><span style=\"color: #d01110;\"><strong>Philip DeLuca, MSW, LCSW<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p>Couples Counselor &amp; Relationship Expert | Matthews, North Carolina<\/p><p>To speak with Phil or inquire about individual counseling, give us a call or fill out the<\/p><p>contact form and click Send.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7bd097a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7bd097a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Our Therapy Process<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f7d0f3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" 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