gobeyondtalktherapy

Many people come to me during times of emotional strain, when life feels overwhelming and relationships are filled with tension and misunderstanding. My goal is to help individuals and couples improve how they communicate with each other, resolve conflict
more effectively, and build healthier, more meaningful connections.
With over 45 years of notable experience and having worked through more than 50,000 situations, I bring a depth of my understanding and practical insight to every session. My work here is to support you as you work through the challenges you’re facing.

Counseling Services

Whether you are feeling stuck in constant arguments or simply want to reconnect, I help you shift the pattern and restore clarity, calm, and connection in your relationships. I offer both online and in-office therapy for individuals and couples.

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Solution-Focused Therapy for People
Who Need Real Support

Reconnect Before It’s Too Late

Meet Phil DeLuca, the UnTalk™ Therapist, a relationship expert with a refreshingly different approach. His method focuses on building your strengths, enhancing communication, and guiding you step-by-step toward lasting, healthy change.

Reconnect and Heal

In this powerful six-part video series, experienced marriage therapist Phil DeLuca teaches you how to defuse arguments before they escalate. These evidence-based tools are simple, effective, and designed for immediate use. Learn how to shift from conflict to connection starting today.

Therapy for Men

Struggling to find someone who truly gets what you're going through? This therapy is designed specifically for men by men to help you face the pressures of life, work, relationships, and personal growth head-on. It about equipping you with tools to perform , manage stress, and take back control.

Save Your Relationship

Meet Phil Deluca, the UnTalk™ therapist. His unique approach can help you build on strengths, develop skills, and form a strategy to move you to a healthier place.

Stop Fighting Tonight

This 6-video series from expert marriage therapist, Phil DeLuca, presents evidence-based techniques you can use TODAY to stop a fight in its tracks and fix your relationship.

Therapy For Men

Looking for a man who could understand your struggles? Therapy for men is for men by men, so you could reach optimal performance. Deal with stress, work and more.

why choose us

Relationships, Couples, & Family Issues.

I focus on helping you build stronger, healthier connections

I can help you with: communication, affairs and affair recovery, separation/divorce adjustment/resolution, marital/relationship counseling, codependency/pursuit and distance, domestic violence, pre-marital counseling, dating issues, conflict and anger resolution, and parenting and step-parenting issues. I also wrote a book and worked with relationships that involved an uncooperative partner:

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What They’re Talking?

4.9 Average Rating

When my boyfriend and I went to our first appointment with Phil DeLuca I was blown away. What he taught us about front and back brain was simply amazing. We were displaying all the characteristics he was describing. Since we have been seeing him we have learned so much and are now able to get through arguments with much better results. We continue to improve and practice the things he has shown us. I am so thankful that we found him.

Judi P. Client

I give this 5 stars because. These sessions really helped mend my relationship, we still have work to do but we are doing so much better. I highly recommend (Go Beyond Talk Therapy) best Couples counseling and psychotherapy in North Carolina.

Sofia W. Client

Phil is a gifted therapist that literally "goes beyond" talk to set wheels in motion for actionable rebounding. He presents coping, tailored solutions that work well through his humanistic approach and expertise. Phil has kept me accountable and become a trusted resource, advocate and friend to get me through my first crises at age 40. He really is amazing at streamlining the obstacles to tackle which feels so empathetic as he has gone through similar strife, crossroads and trust checks in our ever dystopian society.

Geoffery W. Client

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We Welcome Every Journey Toward Healing and Overcoming

Your story matters. Share it with us in a safe, supportive space. Let’s begin together.

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I help people build healthier, more meaningful connections. I work with:

Married couples
Individuals and couples who are dating
Seniors
Men’s issues
Substance abuse
Pornography addiction
Stress reduction
Codependency

Narcissicism
Family therapy
Relationship issues
Post affair recovery
Life/work adjustment
Health coaching
Domestic violence
And many more issues

I support individuals navigating life after divorce, a challenging yet hopeful time for growth and renewal. In a warm, collaborative space, I help clients rebuild with confidence and clarity. Sessions are available both in-office and online to meet your comfort and convenience.

Check out Phil's book

The Solo Partner: Repairing Your Relationship On Your Own

The Solo Partner is the only book available that focuses entirely on relationships where one partner refuses to engage in the healing process. This includes situations where they deny problems exist, blame the other person entirely, or make empty promises to
change but never follow through. If this sounds familiar, then this book was written with you in mind. It offers more than understanding; it introduces a new approach that differs from traditional therapy. This method can still be effective even when only one partner is engaged, especially when conventional talk therapy has failed to bring meaningful or lasting results.

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+1(704)890-8112

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